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Q&A2.23.07
Stephanie Elizondo Griest: ‘100 Places Every Woman Should Go’The writer wants to inspire women to set out on their own sola adventures. Jim Benning asks her about the best and worst destinations for women travelers—and the use of “male repellent.”
World Hum: The world is so big. How did you arrive at these particular places? Stephanie Griest: Every place is glorious in its own special way, but every now and then, I stumble upon somewhere sacred. When I scan the room (or wilderness) for a pair of eyes to share it with, it is inevitably in the eyes of another woman that I find a similar spark or sense of wonderment. Afterward, I can only describe it as a place where “every woman should go.” When Travelers’ Tales approached me with this book project, memories of these places surged forth. I scribbled down half the list in just one sitting, then started calling my girlfriends (and a few select boy friends)—nearly 100 travelers in all.
Do you have any favorite places in the book? I am a native Texan who has traveled extensively in the communist/post-communist world and Mexico, so those places are especially revered (and featured prominently in the book). The best part of writing this book was discovering so many new destinations. I can’t wait to float down the bywaters of Kerala, India in a houseboat, or dance with voodoo priestesses in Benin. I fantasize about undertaking the 870-mile pilgrimage to the 88 Sacred Temples of Shikoku, Japan. Do you have any travel heroes—women who blazed travel trails and inspired your own journeys? My first travel heroes were the men in my family: my great-great uncle Jake was a hobo who rode the rails, and my father drummed his way around the globe with a U.S. Navy Band. But while I’ve dreamed of traveling since early childhood, I never thought I actually would—largely because I couldn’t fathom how. I could conceptualize buying a ticket and boarding a plane, but what would I do after it landed? Then, my senior year in high school, a friend’s neighbor returned home after a semester studying abroad in Europe and introduced me to the magical world of youth hostels, backpacks and Lonely Planet. She was only a few years older than me and downright adamant that if she could roam in foreign lands, I could too. She inspired me to study abroad in college, and I ended up spending six months in Moscow in 1996. Though I deeply loved that experience, I was under the impression that traveling was something you did in college—until I crossed paths with a 67-year-old English woman at a hostel in Vilnius, Lithuania. She had rambled to more than 90 nations, and told me stories half the night as we drank tea from an old chipped pot. That’s when I realized traveling could be a life-long endeavor. I haven’t stopped since. Who are the women travel writers you turn to for inspiration?
I’ve since befriended a number of women travel writers, including Ayun Halliday, Amanda Castleman, Jessie Sholl, and Jen Leo (who founded the blog Written Road, which has been indispensable in the field). I’ve also read a ton of travelogues. My current faves are Martha Gellhorn’s Travels with Myself and Another You note in the introduction that pains were taken to include places where men are respectful of women. Were there places you excluded because the men are not respectful of women? What places do you warn women about? While researching the book, I asked dozens of women about this, and Morocco, northern India, southern Italy and the Tokyo subway topped the list of the most challenging places for women travelers. However, it is important to note that women aren’t always similarly received on the open road. A Bulgarian friend of mine, who has dark Mediterranean features, strolled across Sicily without incident, while a busty blonde American friend got harassed at every turn. I often got cat-called while living in Moscow, but my best friend—who had an elfin haircut and wore baggy clothes—never did. Our perceived race, class, religion and sexual orientation can have just as much—or more—impact abroad as at home. Among the tips you offer women travelers in the book is the use of “male repellent.” That cracked me up. Would you talk about that? We all know how catcalling from street corners and wandering hands in crowded subways can tarnish an otherwise fabulous trip. So “male repellent” comes in handy. Some women wear fake wedding bands and carry photos of hulky men they call husbands to ward off sexual advances. I try to learn key phrases in the local language. ("I’m meeting my boyfriend here. He is a lieutenant in the U.S. Marine Corps,” is a useful one.) Public guilt/humiliation is probably the best way to deal with mobile molesters. Loudly and firmly, say: “How would you like it if someone treated your wife/daughter/sister like that?” or simply: “Shame on you!” Chances are, your fellow passengers will come to your rescue. If you turn around and slug him, however, they likely will not. What do you say to women who are anxious about embarking on their own travels? The root of their uncertainty is almost always fear. Fear of safety. Fear of getting lost. Fear of being alone. Yet, women never really travel alone. We are constantly becoming someone’s daughter, mother, sister. We elicit the empathy—and curiosity—of the people of the planet. There is always extra shelter or food for us. I think it is vital for every woman to travel alone at least once in life, to better hear “Mother Road.” She is one of the most formative teachers around. She will push you to your physical, spiritual and psychological limits—then nudge you one step further. She will teach you to be self-reliant and self-sufficient, which will in turn make you self-confident. That is my greatest hope with “100 Places”: that women will discover a new place that really speaks to them, and decide to venture there sola. I’m sure many of them will. Thanks, Stephanie.
Jim Benning is the co-editor of World Hum.
COMMENTSI first heard Stephanie speak at the Texas Book Festival in Austin, and I could not put her book “Around the Bloc” down once I started reading it. I’ll buy anything she writes. By Sheila at Family Travel on 2.23.07 at 07:15 PM
I’ll add that Stephanie is one of the nicest, most gracious and sincerely supportive writers I’ve ever had the pleasure to meet. Plus, her hair is really that luxurious. I am her spaniel. By Ayun on 2.28.07 at 06:37 PM
Love her writing and her style! By on 3.8.07 at 12:52 AM
Stephanie is no doubt doing a great job at providing women travellers with useful info. besides her impeccable writing style.
Another women friendly place prospective travellers can consider is the Kingdom of Bhutan in the Himalayas.
By on 5.7.07 at 08:48 PM
I agree with Tshering. From personal experience I can say that Bhutan is a wonderful safe friendly place for a woman to travel on her own. By on 5.10.07 at 08:23 PM
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